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Yep, our Mother\u2019s were right. <\/strong>In hindsight everything they have ever told us about life is probably true. Damn. So when they told us that everything has a way of working itself out, I am finding out that this is also true. Double damn. A hard concept to swallow in the heat of the moment. \u00a0As I get older I see that things do have a way of sorting themselves out, even without my intervention.<\/p>\n

Now don\u2019t think you can just \u2018let it happen\u2019 when talking about moving forward in life or business<\/strong>. I am not talking about the action steps needed to get your life in order, your business off the ground or going after that \u2018thing\u2019 you have always wanted. I am talking about the moaning and groaning we all do when we don\u2019t get our own way. Just like children. Some of us never grow up, do we? Some of us like to pick away at a wound till it bleeds, then do it all over again once healed.<\/p>\n

I have been known to try and \u2018fix things\u2019 or \u2018fix people\u2019. <\/strong>Maybe that\u2019s why I am a coach. I don\u2019t like waiting for issues to sort themselves out, I want to sort them out right here, right now! I was once accused of \u2018pushing rope\u2019. With age comes experience and with experience comes knowledge. Knowledge becomes an awareness that is fully self expressed. It sounds like this; \u2018who gives a !*#%\u2019! Wisdom follows this profound acknowledgement.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t mean the \u2018who gives a bleep bleep \u2018because of ego or attitude or misguided judgments. <\/strong>There is a time in a person\u2019s life when they realize they cannot control the situation or another\u2019s behavior and they are ok with that. It\u2019s a great feeling to be at peace with how something will turn out, whether it is good or bad.<\/p>\n

I am in this fully self expressed stage, but I do teeter on the edge of drama on occasion.<\/strong> I am a human female after all. I drink my whine now; it\u2019s a whole lot more fun.<\/p>\n

I am in a different mindset than I used to be.<\/strong> I listen differently to people now. When you cut out the listening with complaint, aka without the bull****, you actually hear what people are truly saying. Most of the time it\u2019s a hidden conversation they have with themselves about their own life. They are looking at themselves through a dirty windshield. Why? Because they don\u2019t believe that things have a way of working themselves out without sticking their nose in it.<\/p>\n

How many times, the dreaded morning after, have you said to yourself \u201cI shoulda, woulda, coulda done this, said that or if only I kept my mouth shut, things would have been ok\u201d? For me, I don\u2019t think I can count that high.<\/p>\n

I am getting alittle tired of hearing other people\u2019s complaints about other people\u2019s complaints<\/strong>. It sucks the life out of me and I simply don\u2019t give a damn. I used to get swallowed up in the drama of it all. I don\u2019t know where I got the energy for it cuz I certainly don\u2019t have it now. Passing judgment is like passing gas, it\u2019s just a lota hot air. And it stinks.<\/p>\n

So next time you want to whine about your life and how things never work out for you\u2026..grab a glass and drink it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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